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What Women Love & Hate About Anal SEX
Mögen Frauen Anal Verkehr oder noch nie probiert?

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Anal sex is just one of those things: she either loves it, or she hates it. There is very little in between. Most women have tried it at some point, and a fair few of them will never dare again despite their hankering to be one of the "lucky ones" who love anal sex. The reason for this avoidance is clear: pain. If there was no pain, there was probably pleasure. Hence, love or hate.

It is true, however, that while you're trying to "get it right" there are likely to be some painful moments, practice makes perfect and it’s the ability to maneuver oneself and try different styles that allows anal sex to be pleasurable.

We've decided to let you in on what women love and hate about anal sex so you can enter the situation sufficiently informed and ready to rock her world.

the allure of anal sex
For men and women, anal sex is a different, tighter sensation, it’s a little bit naughty and it provides some variety to normal sex. Anal sex has a tang of taboo attached to it, though this is falling away: The taboo status of anal sex gives it better credence among the adventuresome and timid alike, and this adds to its attraction. Once tried, however, anal sex can quickly lose its appeal for women (and some men). Here we will discuss some of the reasons why women love and hate anal sex.

why does she love anal sex?
Let’s start with the positives:

Because anal sex feels good
Women love anal sex because it can feel absolutely incredible. It's different in sensation and it doesn’t feel like anything else she may have felt before -- it's deep inside, it's not her clitoris and is not in her vagina, but feels strangely like both in a sort of mixed-up combination in another part of her body. The rectum, once it’s ready, literally swallows the penis up and can’t get enough. The back passage transforms itself into a sexual playground. If the clitoris and/or vagina are stimulated while you are inside of her, it can take her to another sexual realm. Anal orgasms are possible.

Because anal sex is naughty
People love to be a little bit naughty sometimes, and anal sex is one of those things you can do completely privately, and nobody will ever know you were naughty except you and your partner -- which is part of the fun. It is also often a "first time for everything" type of activity which can also be nice -- doing something you've never done before, ever.

why does she hate anal sex?
Now for what goes wrong:

Because anal sex hurts
Anal sex is not easy to master when you haven’t done it before. For a man it may seem straight forward -- in, out -- but it isn’t this simple. Women hate anal sex primarily because it hurts. It can cause cold sweats, shivers, extreme agony, and a massive chemical release into the blood stream that causes pain. This is highly unpleasant, but may be endured because A) She wants to like it; and B) She wants you to like it.

If you're not very careful, if you don’t warm her up properly, if you don’t go slowly enough, you will probably hurt her. This really minimizes your chances for trying anal sex again. Do your best every time and you have at least a fighting chance at having another go.

Because she's worried about a mess
Anal sex is obviously a hot spot for mess. The idea that you could penetrate her butt and come out in a sticky situation is hugely embarrassing for her before it’s even happened, and for this reason she may avoid anal sex altogether. Women spend so much time making themselves look and smell beautiful that to have something ruin her hard work can be mildly devastating. Worrying about mess can be alleviated by using an anal douche before engaging in any anal play. Try taking a shower together too, and make sure her bowels are emptied at least an hour before starting.

Lubricant is essential
The anal canal does not produce its own lubricant, so it is imperative that you use a good quality lubricant in all your anal adventures. It is advisable to use a silicon-based lubricant because they tend to last longer and don’t dry up very quickly like some water-based lubricants do. Don’t use sticky petroleum-based products like Vaseline, as they clog up the walls of the rectum and are much too sticky.

Tease her
It is very important that she is very turned on before you even go near her butt. When she's turned on, her body is much more open to you than if you she is only mildly turned on. She needs to be aching for you to touch her there. Then, when you start to touch her closer to her anus, she will respond with moans and groans instead of a tense grimace. Rub her body all over with oils, relax her, love her, adore her, and caress her. Get her to the point where she is begging you for it, and do this without putting a single thing in her -- tease, tease, tease. Anticipation is one of the greatest sexual tools we have -- use it to your advantage.

Condoms and hygiene
Disease can be passed through unprotected sex -- this includes anal sex. The wall of the rectum is very thin and permeable. However, using condoms can be better for both partners, for other reasons. Women may not like to have a bottom full of semen, which quite frankly is a fair call. After the disruptions of anal sex, the semen mixes with the contents of the rectum and it can get a little "upset" in there. Using a condom avoids this trouble.

Condoms may also protect the penis from any stray fecal matter, though this is generally not a problem, and if it does occur can be washed off easily with no harm done. Men may like to wear a condom so they last a bit longer -- the condom desensitizes the penis somewhat, and allows for longer lovemaking.

what not to do
Do not ever put your penis into a woman’s body without her express permission. Do not treat her body like a scoring device. She is not an object for you to ejaculate in or on, and if she is kind enough to share her beautiful butt with you, treat it with respect and be happy you were allowed close enough to breathe her in at all. Don’t ejaculate inside of her if requested not to. Don’t slam, jackhammer or be forceful either.

what to always do
Always use lube. Always wear a condom if requested to without acting like a baby. Do as you are asked at all times -- anal sex is a delicate situation and she needs to be able to trust you.

Gender presumptions and anal sex
When a heterosexual couple thinks of anal sex, it is generally man-in-woman anal sex. To get a good understanding of what it's like -- and how to improve your performance -- it is necessary and helpful for you to open your mind to the possibility that anal sex is not something that only you do to your female lover, but something that you could do to each other.

Scared yet? Don’t be. If it’s good for the goose, it’s good for the gander. Anal sex takes a lot of practice to perfect, and experimenting with one another is a fantastic way to deepen your connection and enhance your sex life and relationship. It does not have to involve sex toys. You can use fingers, tongues, oils, lubes, and any number of other things. Experiment, and let your own body be loved. It will pay off.

backdoor shenanigans
Anal sex is many things to many people. Do it right, and you’ll get to do it again. Do it wrong, and you may be doomed forever. Well, probably not forever but until she forgets how bad it was the first time around.

There are hundreds of anal sex guides online -- explicit instructions on how to do it right. If you read at least a dozen of them, you’ll probably have a good idea about how to start off. The best piece of advice we can give you is to make sure she is hot for it before you start. Then you really can’t lose.

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1.) Das erste Mal: Anal : http://www.fly-to-australia.org/cgi-bin ... ex=Blended

2.) Anal Fantasie: 25 Kurzgeschichten (Broschiert) : http://www.fly-to-australia.org/cgi-bin ... ndex=Books

[carol]

Anal Verkehr - Anal Liebe - Anus - Anal das Erste Mal

Finde ich cool das hier im Forum auch über so was gesprochen wird! Ich wollte das schon immer mal ausprobieren, aber mein Freund mag das nicht. Und seit dem ich weiss das man da nen Mega Orgasmus bekommen kann hab ich da noch mehr Lust drauf! Ich werde mir mal ein Buche und Anregungen holen.

Viele Dank für den mutigen Beitrag

Liebe Grüsse Carol

[ozfan2]

Anal Verkehr - Anal Liebe - Anus - Anal das Erste Mal

Finde ich cool das hier im Forum auch über so was gesprochen wird! Ich wollte das schon immer mal ausprobieren, aber mein Freund mag das nicht. Und seit dem ich weiss das man da nen Mega Orgasmus bekommen kann hab ich da noch mehr Lust drauf! Ich werde mir mal ein Buche und Anregungen holen.

Viele Dank für den mutigen Beitrag

Liebe Grüsse Carol

Geht mir auch so aber mein PArtner lehnt das ganz ab, bzw. will nicht drüber reden

[acdc-the-jack]

Ich habs schon ausprobiert und kann es jeder nur empfehlen! Wenn man ganz behutsam vorgeht und den Anus erst leicht massiert und langsam mit dem Finger erstmal übt, dann ist das Eindringen später völlig schmerzlos! Etwas Gleitcreme ist von Vorteil und beim Eindringen am Besten wenn Sie auf dem Bauch liegt und dann ganz ganz langsam mit Gefühl eindringen. Stück für Stück dann tut es Ihr auch nicht weh! Und wenn nicht beim Erstemnal, weil es vielleicht noch etwas unangenehm ist, wird Sie aber spätestens beim Zweitenmal einen Mega Orgasmus erleben. Und der ist intensiver als der von Vorne!!! Und je öfters man Anal macht desto intensiver und geiler wird das Gefühl ...
Jede die es nicht probiert ist selbst schuld ... und Eckelig ist es überhaupt nicht, wenn man seinen Partner liebt!!!

[1yearoff]

DA BEKOMMT MAN JA ECHT lUST ES MAL AUSZUPROBIEREN ::::: acdc DANKE für die Info ...

[carla]

Ich habs schon ausprobiert und kann es jeder nur empfehlen! Wenn man ganz behutsam vorgeht und den Anus erst leicht massiert und langsam mit dem Finger erstmal übt, dann ist das Eindringen später völlig schmerzlos! Etwas Gleitcreme ist von Vorteil und beim Eindringen am Besten wenn Sie auf dem Bauch liegt und dann ganz ganz langsam mit Gefühl eindringen. Stück für Stück dann tut es Ihr auch nicht weh! Und wenn nicht beim Erstemnal, weil es vielleicht noch etwas unangenehm ist, wird Sie aber spätestens beim Zweitenmal einen Mega Orgasmus erleben. Und der ist intensiver als der von Vorne!!! Und je öfters man Anal macht desto intensiver und geiler wird das Gefühl ...
Jede die es nicht probiert ist selbst schuld ... und Eckelig ist es überhaupt nicht, wenn man seinen Partner liebt!!!

Ich mag dieses Thema, weil ich leider auch noch nie die Gelegenheit hatte es auszu probieren .... Leider!!!
Aber super Thema!!!

[nina30]

Würds auch gern mal wieder probieren, habs schonmal aber ist viel zu lange her ... Mein neuer Partner will das leider nicht

[Crocodile Dundee]

Ich stehe auch drauf aber meiner Partnerin nicht ...leider ... aber anderstwo darf ichs auch nicht ausprobieren lol

[nina30]

Ich stehe auch drauf aber meiner Partnerin nicht ...leider ... aber anderstwo darf ichs auch nicht ausprobieren lol

Vielleicht können wir ja mal den Partner tauschen ... geht mir ja auch so ....

[oz-explorer]

wow hätte nicht gedacht das dieses Thema soviele User beschäftigt .... gehört ja eigentlich nicht hier ins Australien Forum, aber einige haben schon gefragt ob man das mal diskutieren kann und warum nicht , solange es jugendfrei bleibt und ich denke bis jetzt ist das auch so ....